Looking For My Beshert
lilahtov
Bridgeport, Connecticut | Woman Seeking A Man
Basic Information
I Would Describe Myself As
Put me in a room with ten strangers and I’ll have ten new buddies, or at least ten slightly amused new acquaintances. The desire to be kind to others is a basic part of my being. This stems from my faith, which informs every aspect of my life. I’d like to find someone to share that life with, whether we’re taking a trip to Egypt or simply sitting at home watching Pillow Talk or Back to the Future. I love to read, everything from Animal Farm to This Is My G-d. I think I prefer campy fun to camping and the hotel pool to the beach, but I do enjoy doing outdoorsy things, especially cycling. And as to the aforementioned hotel, I am a very down to earth woman, so it does not have to be the Ritz. If I am with the right person, one of Tom Bodett’s fine establishments will do just fine. I’ll go to a football or baseball game with you in a heartbeat, although it’s probably just an excuse for me to have a ballpark dog, kosher of course, and lemonade. I’m an all around funny and outgoing girl and I play nice, so say hello and let’s make a play date.
The man that I am looking for is intelligent with a great sense of humor and a passion for social justice. He is not into playing games or the thrill of the chase, he is not looking for just another girlfriend, but he is ready for a serious, committed long-term relationship leading to marriage and hopefully a family. He does not have to tell people that he is a gentleman; his actions prove that he is one. He is a man of action; he knows exactly what he wants and goes after it. If we are a match, you will be my number one priority and I will be number one on your list. Being selfish is just not part of who he is; he cares for his family, community, friends and his partner. He’s attractive in his own way and is comfortable with his emotions. He does not have any children, either living with him or outside the home. He can hold his own in a debate with me and can tactfully tell me when I am wrong. He will come over and sit on the sofa with me while we watch The Empire Strikes Back and he explains to me exactly why it is obviously the best of the Star Wars movies. And he’s the man that I can’t get angry at, even when we both know we are lost and he continues to pass gas stations without stopping to ask for directions.
But, even with this long list of all the things I would like this man to be, if he is truly my bashert then none of it will matter. The fact that we have found each other will be all that matters.
The man that I am looking for is intelligent with a great sense of humor and a passion for social justice. He is not into playing games or the thrill of the chase, he is not looking for just another girlfriend, but he is ready for a serious, committed long-term relationship leading to marriage and hopefully a family. He does not have to tell people that he is a gentleman; his actions prove that he is one. He is a man of action; he knows exactly what he wants and goes after it. If we are a match, you will be my number one priority and I will be number one on your list. Being selfish is just not part of who he is; he cares for his family, community, friends and his partner. He’s attractive in his own way and is comfortable with his emotions. He does not have any children, either living with him or outside the home. He can hold his own in a debate with me and can tactfully tell me when I am wrong. He will come over and sit on the sofa with me while we watch The Empire Strikes Back and he explains to me exactly why it is obviously the best of the Star Wars movies. And he’s the man that I can’t get angry at, even when we both know we are lost and he continues to pass gas stations without stopping to ask for directions.
But, even with this long list of all the things I would like this man to be, if he is truly my bashert then none of it will matter. The fact that we have found each other will be all that matters.
Sign
Aquarius
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Big And Beautiful
My Height Is
5' 5 (1.65 m)
My Eyes Are
Brown
My Ethnicity Is
African American
My Marital Situation Is
Never Married
I Have Kids
No
I Want Kids
Not Sure
My Best Feature Is
Eyes
Body Art
Pierced... But Only Ear(s), Strategically Placed Tattoo
My Hair Is
Black
Willing To Relocate
Yes
Status
My Education Level Is
University Degree
My Current Employment Status Is
Full-time
My Speciality Is
Other
My Job Title Is
Community Service Coordinator
I Live
Alone
At Home
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
Yes - One Or Two
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Nerd
My Social Behavior Is
Friendly, Comedic, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Arts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Movies, Dining, Religion / Spirituality, Theater, Travel, Volunteering
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Going To A Casino, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Cool, Goofy
Views
My Religion Is
Jewish
I Attend Services
Once A Month
My Political Views Are
Liberal
My Kind Of Humor Is
Campy, Clever, Friendly, Goofy
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
News, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, Reality Shows
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Country, Pop, Jazz, Ambient, Soul, Reggae
When I Read, I Always Read
Auto-biography, Business, Classic, Fiction, Health, History, Home & Garden, Mystery, Philosophy, Political, Religious, Satire
My Idea Of Fun Is
Traveling, having new experiences, going to a modern art museum, learning something new, trying a new restaurant.
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Intelligence, Good Looks, Sensitivity, Boldness, Power, Wit, Thoughtfullness
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Committed